"Learning to Say No"

As I look back on the last several weeks...I realize that without trying I have learned a few things about myself.

After a whirlwind trip through Europe to help someone. I realize I need to listen to my husband more.
We came home absolutely exhausted and now I am sick.
My patience is worn down and my reactions to recent events are not quite in keeping with who I am.

Don't get me wrong...it proved to be quite an adventure in its own right. I wouldn't trade the long term joy and results for the short lived discomfort..And in knowing that we gave without asking anything in return...is its own reward. It is enough.

With that being said...

I need to listen to my husband, when he tells me I need to learn how to say no.

I have come to understand yet again, I can't fix everything and I must stop trying.
In many ways I have already learned this.
But, somewhere along the way I have slipped into saying yes before I fully realize the repercussions.

So, tonight I am doing myself this favor.
From now on....before I say yes.. I will pray to my Father and ask how I should answer.
And by all means..when my husband who is a godly man believes I have overextended myself..

I will change gears regardless of what anyone else thinks.

If you have found yourself always saying yes.
Think again and don't be afraid to say no!!
Then seek wise counsel..for wise counsel is a worthy comrade!!

and finally remember to let God be God...you are not in charge..He can work all things together for your good and His Glory..

Ephesians 5:23
"For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church,
his body, of which he is the Savior"